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Phone Agreement With Child


First develop ways, etiquette and responsibility in real life before allowing the possession of the phone. In fact, you can determine your teen`s phone availability, how they behave in real life. But be careful to subtract a few years, because their phone behavior is generally more immature than their actual behavior. Before we dive in, let`s start with the obvious: if we allow our children to use a technical tool dangerous enough to require them to sign a written contract, a huge red flag for parents should flee. What do we think? Today`s smartphone culture is making our teens more stressed and anxious than ever1 and a contract won`t help relieve stress. Fast forward a dozen years and I`m stuck in a fight with my tween on Tik Tok. Apparently, all his friends have it. It`s the same story with my nine-year-old and Fortnite. And my seven-year-old goes through Zelda on the Nintendo Switch, we`ve all received them for Christmas – a game that should be for his father.

Dr. Michael Rubino, a San Francisco Bay-area psychotherapist who has worked with teens for more than 19 years, recommends that teens have a mobile phone (without a camera) and not a smartphone.7 “There`s no reason why a teenager really needs a smartphone. They do not look after a family or run a business. Therefore, a simple mobile phone should be tailored to their needs,” Rubino writes. Melanie and her husband Chris educate four children in a media home – and have succeeded in replacing video games with sports, music, art and good manners, and they`ve also done the impossible: they`ve prevented social media and smartphones from controlling their teens. For more information on your children`s recovery and reconnection with your family, check out When my daughter was born 12 years ago, there were no iPads, and I had just bought a mobile phone. At the time, I never imagined how much of my parenthood would revolve around smartphones, tablets, apps and social media. If you`re still convinced that your smartphone contract will work, let`s talk about this task chart from years ago. How did it work? If you`re like many families, this well-made choreography is under a magnet on the fridge behind the pizza-take-out menu – at least that`s where ours is. It was used for almost a week, then lost all its strength. This will also happen with your mobile phone contract.

You can`t expect your children to follow a phone contract if they can`t always follow simple instructions to swim teeth, unload the dishwasher or empty the box without your constant solicitation.

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